How a Request For Permanent Birth Control Became an Investigation

I was in my early 20s when I realised that having children wasn’t something I wanted for my life. It wasn’t a dramatic moment, or a bad experience. When it comes to Life Lessons and Life Decisions - I like to learn by observing and learning from people's stories and experiences. And so over time I built a very clear understanding of what that choice actually means. It’s not just about having a child — it’s a lifetime commitment to a way of living that revolves around someone else entirely. It’s constant responsibility, constant negotiation, constant concern and worry about their wellbeing, their future, and the world they’re growing into. I understood that fully, and I knew that it wasn’t the life I wanted to build. There was (and still is) too much I wanted to explore, create, and contribute in my own way, and I was certain enough in that to start asking how I could make that decision permanent. What followed was years of being passed around the system without answers. Sexual h...